The job skills thing is funny. I was a district manager before I was 30 and have a very solid reputation in the industry as one that was able to turn around a couple of small companies and make them very profitable. Don't confuse the fact that at 38 I am able to work on my terms at jobs I enjoy with lacking job skills. I can walk away from working tomorrow and have my wife do the same and live comfortably off savings and non W2 income without missing a beat. We made choices in lifestyle 20 years ago to ensure that would be an option at 40.
You would be surprised how little I actually dink. I am not nor have I ever been a drunk. You did get one right, I can actively choose to be an asshole. Especially when I can give a less about the opinion of the person I am talking to.
Yeah, not giving a about the opinion of the person you are talking to always makes for a great guy. Too bad you don't care about other people. I am afraid that you will find no one cares about you either. That is a sad way to live. But what do you care, right?