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View PostMatt, on 21 December 2012 - 03:20 PM, said:

Unless you are planning on having kids right away, as a young couple expect to hear at every family function "When are you two having kids?" The best way to nip this in the bud is to make up a good sob story about not being sure you can, makes people uncomfortable they quit asking.




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View PostSECats, on 22 December 2012 - 08:01 AM, said:

I was 27 when I got married and it was the best decision I ever made.  She is my best friend and the mother of my kids.  She is Heaven sent.  We have a great relationship....it's not easy at times (marriage), so be careful and marry your best friend.

My only advice is simple:

- always try your best to show her respect, even when you are upset.
- be NICE to her, even when you don't want to be.
- love her at ALL times.
- trust her, marriage without trust will NEVER work.
- laugh with her.
- NEVER underestimate the power of affection.
- bring her flowers for no reason.

Follow these points and I promise, it will be the best thing you ever did.

I know nothing about Sandals....but honeymoons are special, go and have FUN!!!  Create memories.  Laugh.  Talk about the future and be excited about it.  Guys always want to be cynical about girls/women and play them off like a conquest but I truly believe we (men) are not complete without the companionship of their soul mate.

Corny?  Maybe....but it's true.  I wish you well.

@JDawg this is the best advice you'll ever get worth reading it twice. If some of us had listened to advice like this our first second and maybe third chance at marriage would have worked.

Marry your best friend.... great job @SECats
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